Part IV: Polyamory, Monogamy and other types of bonds explained: Why do we stay in dysfunctional relationships—the internal blueprint cycle of Clinging to the Good or Fixating on the Bad.
Part IV: Polyamory, Monogamy and other types of bonds explained: Why do we stay in dysfunctional relationships—the internal blueprint cycle of Clinging to the Good or Fixating on the Bad.
Understand the Difference Between Hope and Reality. Object Relations Theory: The splitting of the Ego, the internalized “bad”/“good” objects in our mind.
You did it again! great overview of this complex topic. 🌸 💗🙏
The more we integrate and heal our own immature aspects, the more successful we become in attracting compatible relationships. That's my own (admittedly limited) experience.
Thank you very much, Veronika💗🙏! I am glad you enjoyed the overview. It's amazing how much our relationships mirror the work we do within.
While writing this V-part newsletter, I got an improved awareness of how complex our child wounds are, and how they influence our adult choices in so many ways.
I'm glad I started writing about this:)
I wish you continued growth and a wonderful creative September.
I value your thoughts, and I look forward to reading your future words!
So deep! This series is a novel! Wow. I have already read it twice. So much here! Looking back I recognize myself in the examples and give myself a big hug. It’s a journey. Never a map yet to understand these concepts is very comforting. Thanks for the time and efforts here. This is beyond good 🙏❤️
Jamie, thank you very much for your thoughtful words 🙏❤️. I am deeply moved that you have found so much value in this one. I know and feel that this newsletter is more difficult to follow because it dives into matters that require a slower pace and a lot of self-assurance.
Writing it was also difficult for me because I had been through this process before.
It's difficult to uncover the truth about certain situations and admit that what you thought was true love might not have been. That realization can leave one feeling unworthy because it breaks the spell of denial and wishful thinking.
But, as you mentioned, it's a journey without a map. Your understanding of these concepts, as well as your ability to embrace them, is extremely powerful. I appreciate your support and the time you took to read and consider this. Thank you for your encouragement; it really means a lot to me. ❤️
Many thanks, Bansi! 😊 Isn't it fascinating? Our childhood experiences have a profound impact on how we perceive the world as adults, far more profound than I had anticipated. I am glad you found it interesting!🙏
You did it again! great overview of this complex topic. 🌸 💗🙏
The more we integrate and heal our own immature aspects, the more successful we become in attracting compatible relationships. That's my own (admittedly limited) experience.
Thank you very much, Veronika💗🙏! I am glad you enjoyed the overview. It's amazing how much our relationships mirror the work we do within.
While writing this V-part newsletter, I got an improved awareness of how complex our child wounds are, and how they influence our adult choices in so many ways.
I'm glad I started writing about this:)
I wish you continued growth and a wonderful creative September.
I value your thoughts, and I look forward to reading your future words!
isn't it amazing how much we learn from our own writing? I know exactly what you mean!
I'll start posting again next week, looking forward to writing and substacking again myself! xxx big hugs to you
Oh, yes! I can’t wait to see your posts again—I’m sure they’ll be as insightful and inspiring as ever. Good luck! Big hugs to you too! xxx
So deep! This series is a novel! Wow. I have already read it twice. So much here! Looking back I recognize myself in the examples and give myself a big hug. It’s a journey. Never a map yet to understand these concepts is very comforting. Thanks for the time and efforts here. This is beyond good 🙏❤️
Jamie, thank you very much for your thoughtful words 🙏❤️. I am deeply moved that you have found so much value in this one. I know and feel that this newsletter is more difficult to follow because it dives into matters that require a slower pace and a lot of self-assurance.
Writing it was also difficult for me because I had been through this process before.
It's difficult to uncover the truth about certain situations and admit that what you thought was true love might not have been. That realization can leave one feeling unworthy because it breaks the spell of denial and wishful thinking.
But, as you mentioned, it's a journey without a map. Your understanding of these concepts, as well as your ability to embrace them, is extremely powerful. I appreciate your support and the time you took to read and consider this. Thank you for your encouragement; it really means a lot to me. ❤️
Very interesting! It’s amazing how childhood experiences shape adulthood perceptions. Thank you for this Katerina! 😊
Many thanks, Bansi! 😊 Isn't it fascinating? Our childhood experiences have a profound impact on how we perceive the world as adults, far more profound than I had anticipated. I am glad you found it interesting!🙏