Doubt, an evolutionary mind-and-heart tool, has led us to this moment in history, but our ability to hold opposing viewpoints and discern will shape the next chapter of our human story.
So much here Katerina. I am doing some research for work and read that emotional intelligence, empathy and resilience is trending down in society. Maybe discernment too? As more technology has arrived it has possibly left us with too much information. Too many choices? When I reach out during coaching sessions I am often told by the other that they are experiencing “imposter syndrome”- unhealthy self doubt. It seems to be more prevalent. To Maslow it was self-transcendence not actualization at the top of the pyramid. Culture seems be more prosaic and less spiritual. Are we becoming illiterate in terms of myth, mystery, symbol, and metaphor. These are the language of transformation. The journey to individuation is the journey from me to we. Thanks for this! Lots to think about here. 🙏❤️
Jamie, I share your observations. One of the reasons I wrote this piece about doubt is that I realized how important patience is—sitting in the 'tension', discerning, curating, and filtering what comes our way. I often also meet people who feel like 'impostors,' and I believe this social construct we live in is oriented toward immediate material needs and desires rather than the spiritual needs that require tending and self-reflection. As we have talked about a while ago, is also the overuse of the left side of our brain, focusing on the concrete and the map, rather than experiencing the real landscape- like what you often say- the space in between the words.
We are living in a time unlike any other in history; we are tired and don’t take the time to rest. We keep pushing forward in pursuit of what society deems valuable, successful, and worthy of love. This relentless drive, I believe, stems from feelings of loneliness and isolation. We crave connection and appreciation, which may explain why doubt is thriving while discernment is fading. With discernment, we can separate ourselves from emotional turbulence and see our own value without the need to perform for love.
As I wrote this piece, I felt a deep sadness for the voices of those I had in mind—my friends who constantly feel they are missing out on life, that feel trapped. In reality, we have the power to discern and choose our own paths, not the other way around. We have real power. We are fortunate to have this freedom, yet here we are, doubting our experiences and living according to the projections of the majority, failing to internalize our own truths.
Very well said, Jamie! It might be the asymmetry between what we think we know and what we have actually internalized. Whatever we integrate inward will find a way to shape our outer reality. It’s a great question worth contemplating!
“Individuation” (“self-realization”)— ultimately is about connection, community, and wholeness—not about individuality—but about making space for others to belong, grow, and thrive alongside us.
“As children, we need to be mirrored and to learn that what we feel matters, in the way we can tell our truth and trust the world around and listen to our instincts.”
As a professional “Nanny” who helped first time parents raise their precious infants, I loved and befriended over thirty infants, toddlers and preschoolers. Children are my peers, there’s nothing like being loved by and accepted by children! I have a childlike personality, except I don’t throw temper tantrums!
Oh, Geraldine, that's wonderful! Although we don’t know each other personally, I feel that you have a warm and positive presence. We truly need all the 'nannies' we can get in this world, children can feel so isolated raised only by their parents. I bet you have so many stories to share and have gathered an impressive amount of love and admiration from those little souls. The best personalities are childlike—minus the tantrums!
I’m leaning into it as well, and will read it a few more times and reach out. I’m really impressed at the depth of your writing, and the resources you have gone to.
Jamie, I really appreciate that, lean as long as you need! I’m so glad the depth came through, and it means a lot that you’re taking the time to sit with it. I gathered this information bit by bit, and writing it down really helps me structure my thoughts. It also surprises me when I make connections that might otherwise be lost if I hadn’t written them down.
Veronika, take all the time you need! I also want to re-read your latest post—I’m making tea as I write this comment and getting ready to expand my perspective as I dive into it more slowly. I think you sparked the 'concept' of doubt for me with Descartes' quote we talk about, and then a friend wrote a poem about self-doubt, which got me reflecting on how much this topic affects us. We doubt ourselves too often, as — Suzy Kassem said: "Self-doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will."
Thank you, thank you! You are creative for sure—what a cute reinterpretation of "article." My ‘art-icles’ may not hang in a museum, but I definitely love to hang them in people’s minds! :))
Where was this quote when I published today's article? I even used an image of an atomic bomb exploding. “The danger of the atomic bomb is not the bomb itself but the unconsciousness of man.”-C.Jung
Thank you for yet another comprehensive exploration of, in this case, opposites, which we are all familiar with, whether we are aware of them or not. This continues to be one of my path's most fascinating aspects.
Thank you, Ryan! That Jung quote is incredibly powerful and resonates deeply, especially in the context of your article, which I will read, I come by your page from time to time to read your notes and now I will read your article, I look forward.
Jung's quote yes, it’s a reminder of how our unconscious motivations can shape the world around us. I’m glad you found the exploration of opposites meaningful; it truly is a fascinating aspect of my path too. :)
Thank you, Geraldine! I also enjoy your work, spirit, and wisdom. I made my first podcast with a friend, but it's in Romanian, my native language. However, I plan to create more audio content in English for sure and videos also. I really appreciate your support!
So much here Katerina. I am doing some research for work and read that emotional intelligence, empathy and resilience is trending down in society. Maybe discernment too? As more technology has arrived it has possibly left us with too much information. Too many choices? When I reach out during coaching sessions I am often told by the other that they are experiencing “imposter syndrome”- unhealthy self doubt. It seems to be more prevalent. To Maslow it was self-transcendence not actualization at the top of the pyramid. Culture seems be more prosaic and less spiritual. Are we becoming illiterate in terms of myth, mystery, symbol, and metaphor. These are the language of transformation. The journey to individuation is the journey from me to we. Thanks for this! Lots to think about here. 🙏❤️
Jamie, I share your observations. One of the reasons I wrote this piece about doubt is that I realized how important patience is—sitting in the 'tension', discerning, curating, and filtering what comes our way. I often also meet people who feel like 'impostors,' and I believe this social construct we live in is oriented toward immediate material needs and desires rather than the spiritual needs that require tending and self-reflection. As we have talked about a while ago, is also the overuse of the left side of our brain, focusing on the concrete and the map, rather than experiencing the real landscape- like what you often say- the space in between the words.
We are living in a time unlike any other in history; we are tired and don’t take the time to rest. We keep pushing forward in pursuit of what society deems valuable, successful, and worthy of love. This relentless drive, I believe, stems from feelings of loneliness and isolation. We crave connection and appreciation, which may explain why doubt is thriving while discernment is fading. With discernment, we can separate ourselves from emotional turbulence and see our own value without the need to perform for love.
As I wrote this piece, I felt a deep sadness for the voices of those I had in mind—my friends who constantly feel they are missing out on life, that feel trapped. In reality, we have the power to discern and choose our own paths, not the other way around. We have real power. We are fortunate to have this freedom, yet here we are, doubting our experiences and living according to the projections of the majority, failing to internalize our own truths.
Too much information and not enough transformation might be what we are seeing. The transcendence of self finds us or do we find it?
Very well said, Jamie! It might be the asymmetry between what we think we know and what we have actually internalized. Whatever we integrate inward will find a way to shape our outer reality. It’s a great question worth contemplating!
The resource guide is spectacular, I will make my way over to those articles as time moves forward! Thanks love, Geraldine
Thank youuu, Geraldine! As always, you're such a wonderful supporter, and I truly appreciate you!
“Individuation” (“self-realization”)— ultimately is about connection, community, and wholeness—not about individuality—but about making space for others to belong, grow, and thrive alongside us.
A divine power!
Indeed! <3
“Hurtful biases that trample the dignity of others.”
That’s a smashing truth!
I will repeat it often.
Well said! I’ll write this down somewhere—thank you! It's such a powerful truth.
Yes it is “shadow work”
I love Michael Meade
He’s so precious
I recently discovered his work and enjoyed what I had time to explore. I only wish I had more time to read everything! 😊
“As children, we need to be mirrored and to learn that what we feel matters, in the way we can tell our truth and trust the world around and listen to our instincts.”
As a professional “Nanny” who helped first time parents raise their precious infants, I loved and befriended over thirty infants, toddlers and preschoolers. Children are my peers, there’s nothing like being loved by and accepted by children! I have a childlike personality, except I don’t throw temper tantrums!
This is a remarkable statement!
Oh, Geraldine, that's wonderful! Although we don’t know each other personally, I feel that you have a warm and positive presence. We truly need all the 'nannies' we can get in this world, children can feel so isolated raised only by their parents. I bet you have so many stories to share and have gathered an impressive amount of love and admiration from those little souls. The best personalities are childlike—minus the tantrums!
“Decision fatigue”
That’s a beauty!
I’m gonna say a naughty word.
This is so f_c_ing good
and 21st Century knowledge
I hope everyone reads it!
I hope so too :))! Thank you!
I’m leaning into it as well, and will read it a few more times and reach out. I’m really impressed at the depth of your writing, and the resources you have gone to.
Jamie, I really appreciate that, lean as long as you need! I’m so glad the depth came through, and it means a lot that you’re taking the time to sit with it. I gathered this information bit by bit, and writing it down really helps me structure my thoughts. It also surprises me when I make connections that might otherwise be lost if I hadn’t written them down.
Sent a deeper reply, in a different part of the thread. Keep writing! We need you.
What an interesting exploration of doubt as 'an evolutionary mind-and-heart tool'.
In a rush now, but I'll definitely come back to this. Just the first few paragraph already spark so many ideas... more soon xxx
Veronika, take all the time you need! I also want to re-read your latest post—I’m making tea as I write this comment and getting ready to expand my perspective as I dive into it more slowly. I think you sparked the 'concept' of doubt for me with Descartes' quote we talk about, and then a friend wrote a poem about self-doubt, which got me reflecting on how much this topic affects us. We doubt ourselves too often, as — Suzy Kassem said: "Self-doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will."
Much wisdom crystallized into this brilliant art-icle.
Thank you, thank you! You are creative for sure—what a cute reinterpretation of "article." My ‘art-icles’ may not hang in a museum, but I definitely love to hang them in people’s minds! :))
Sweet!
Oh I love everything about this, Katerina. So well said.
Eliza, thank you so much, I'm glad you enjoyed it! It means a lot coming from you!:)
Where was this quote when I published today's article? I even used an image of an atomic bomb exploding. “The danger of the atomic bomb is not the bomb itself but the unconsciousness of man.”-C.Jung
Thank you for yet another comprehensive exploration of, in this case, opposites, which we are all familiar with, whether we are aware of them or not. This continues to be one of my path's most fascinating aspects.
Thank you, Ryan! That Jung quote is incredibly powerful and resonates deeply, especially in the context of your article, which I will read, I come by your page from time to time to read your notes and now I will read your article, I look forward.
Jung's quote yes, it’s a reminder of how our unconscious motivations can shape the world around us. I’m glad you found the exploration of opposites meaningful; it truly is a fascinating aspect of my path too. :)
Fascinating is an excellent word for the exploration of opposites. Thanks for reading my notes and the article and for your thoughtful comment.
I so do appreciate and value your voice Lady Katerina and the calling I hear! Your work and wisdom is very special to me!
Have a peaceful day, Geraldine
P. S.
Have you considered a podcast?
Thank you, Geraldine! I also enjoy your work, spirit, and wisdom. I made my first podcast with a friend, but it's in Romanian, my native language. However, I plan to create more audio content in English for sure and videos also. I really appreciate your support!